Is That What You're Really Thinking?

I got this idea while reading an article from Mens Health the other day, which coincidently was the same topic I had in a teh tarik session recently. The entire idea of wondering what the other person is really thinking is not exactly a new idea but it is something that most of us has been grappling for years and years, especially in our own community.

[ So true... ]

Perhaps that it is our culture to not really say what we really think in conversations with other people and would rather mask it with what we think would be a more pleasant answer. However, one would not realize this that for every time we do it, it makes it so difficult for another person to actually understand what you are really thinking...

[ Even the ladies find us difficult ]

The reality is, that we are a difficult person to understand, be it for guys or for girls. I do understand that a lot would say that this would only effect the female mind but you'd be surprise on how many of us men would actually give our counterparts a difficult time to decipher what we really are thinking.

So, what would exactly be the solution to this problem? Fact of the matter is that this issue lies in such a grey area, that many of us would not even think of a solution and just leave it as it is. Personally, my suggestion would be just to really talk. The beauty of face to face conversation really is dying out there and in the end, a lot of us would not have the guts to even say what you really feel or think. In the end, many of us fail to really portray what we think due to the fear of talking. Say it out loud people, it really does help...

So blurt it out when necessary people, the last thing you would want is a difficulty to actually say what you really are thinking.

Anyone with any other ideas on this? Do share!

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